Start with what's needed day to day
List the tasks that are becoming difficult — washing, dressing, cooking, medication, mobility, or simply being alone for long periods. This gives a realistic picture of the support that would help most.
Think about where care happens
Many people prefer to stay in their own home for as long as possible. Consider whether the home is practical and safe, and whether family, friends or neighbours are nearby to help.
Consider how needs might change
Care needs can increase gradually or suddenly, for example after a fall or hospital stay. Choosing a provider who can flex the level of support up or down avoids having to start again from scratch later.
Involve the person who'll receive care
Wherever possible, involve the person at the centre of the decision. Their preferences about carers, routines, privacy and dignity should shape the care plan.
Get a professional view
A needs assessment from the local council, or a free assessment from a care provider, can help confirm what level and type of care would genuinely help.
Common questions
What if family members disagree about the right option?
It can help to get an independent assessment and to keep the wishes of the person receiving care central to the decision.